Tuesday, March 26, 2013

FFM- rejoining :)

I am going to try to post more on here (as you saw from my last post earlier today) and what better way than joining FMM again!

If you’ve taken part in FMM then you know the rules. If you’re new, please take a moment to answer this week’s question on your own blog then add your link in the comments section here at: www.alltheweigh.com so we can all see your FMM questions and answers. Please invite your blog readers to add their links here too so everyone has to opportunity to be seen. The idea is to connect with other awesome bloggers so take a moment to post your own FMM post and comment on a couple of other posts. Now it’s time for this week’s topic!
 Ten Questions
1. Describe the kind of home you would live in if money were no object.  I always though I was going to have a beautiful home in the suburbs with a wraparound porch and a big yard...that has change to a Brownstone in NYC, where I can walk out Carrie style to grab a cab to join my girls for brunch.
2. Are you more conservative in your actions or more rebellious? definitely rebellious. I like to think outside the box, I like interesting an unique things and people, I like making others laugh; I like to dance on the street and jump in puddles. I am also very open minded.
3. Would you go to Mars even if it meant you could never return to Earth?  Nope, even if I could come back, I have no desire to go to  outer space.
4. Name one song that makes you want to dance every time you hear it. the Macarena and Ricky Martin Living la vida Loca! and believe me I do get up and dance no matter where I am
5. Share one thing that you wish you could go back and do differently in your life.  I am going with Kenley and saying being more honest and speak up my mind more. I think of others feelings even when they are not thinking of mine and that is not healthy.
6. Share at least one accomplishment that people wouldn't expect you to be proud of.  I can paint well, I can master organizing things and I can do my makeup really well.
7. Describe one delicious thing that you've eaten lately.   A bruschetta Panini from this little Italian place we just found and some shrimp cakes the chef at work made.
8. If you had a theme song that would play every time you entered a room, which song would you choose?  Elevation from U2.
9. Had technology enhanced your life, or has it over complicated your life?  not much either way, I don't even have a cell phone. I do love my internet and browsing in the tablet and I know things are more convenient now.
10. If you could get paid to do any job, which job would you choose?  Makeup Artist or cosmetologist, or some sort of Organizing pro.
Now is you turn!
Over & out

I'm not a blogger

Yes,in case you haven't figure that out I am not a blogger.
I do not have the time to write and be all cohesive and have pretty photos for you. I do want to get a camera and show you real NYC life, real lets get on the train with everyone is avoiding only to  find a homeless guy puking his brains out, or lets figure it out why Duane Reade has such a cool selection of makeup. I want so share that I found a little place that makes the best paninis in the Bronx, or how when you are going downtown you should switch from the 1 train to the A 'cause is faster.

There has been a lot of changes, as you know and I'm excited of all of them, even the ones that scare me. I'm learning to trust life, God, divinity and my gut. Things happen and you  can either dwell on them or rejoice on the opportunity to change things, to have adventures and to learn new things. Like not to wear heels all the time no matter how downtown cool it may look.

Last year was a difficult one, you all know that from all my sad little post. But I'm ok with that. I am owning up to say it was ALL OUR FAULT everything that happened to use. We are responsible and should own up to those facts. But I also realize other people should  be held  accountable for their actions, for being awful with us for giving us their back, for treating us poorly, for showing their true colors. They have EVERY right to be that way, and I have every  right to not tolerate that, to move on and don't take their shit, to not make an effort for anyone that is not willing to make that effort to me.

It is really sad to leave people in the past and behind you, people you once loved so much. But the lesson remains: not  everyone  is meant to be with you forever.

I just want to say my piece and be done with it, move on and just share how much I am enjoying  living here. Finding new places to shop, a new beauty place, going for deals at Target but I haven't been able to do that, I discovered I am still angry and hurt and it will take me a little while until I can post and not talk about the same thing over and over, so I  opted for not posting. Does it makes sense? probably not but that is me, I don't make sense must of the time :)

But things are changing and hearts are mending, spring is coming and with it a new perspective.

I hope I can get it all in photos.

Over & out