Monday, October 10, 2011

Lazy Friend Makin' Monday

I am a little late posting this, I had a very lazy weekend but I needed it. The Hubs said he feels I'm burned out and he is probably right, either that or I have a mild case of depression...I just think that us women have a need to do too much and try to do it perfectly.

I specially need to learn to relax, rely on others and just let some things go. Even in my marriage I find that I ask for perfection when no one is, I want my Hubs to anticipate what I'm thinking before I do and he is not a mind reader. Communication is key in every relationship and I have to learn to ask for help if I need it before I get like this...anyways, moving on...

Now it’s time for FMM! If you’ve taken part in FMM then you know the rules. If you’re new, please take a moment to answer this week’s question on your own blog then add your link in the comments section here at: so we can all see your FMM questions and answers. Please invite your blog readers to add their links here too so everyone has to opportunity to be seen. The idea is to connect with other awesome bloggers so take a moment to post your own FMM post and comment on a couple of other posts. Now it’s time for this week’s topic!

FMM: 8 Taboo Topics

  1. How often do you read/watch the news? Not very often, I catch highlights online but I do not like to hear all the stuff that happens out there.
  2. What is your opinion on beauty pageants?I find them ridiculous, if you watch Miss Universe it seems they do and say the same thing year after year, I'm sure they are lovely Ladies but the claim of being a perfect look bothers me.
  3. Would you date/marry someone who has different religious views than you? I'm already married and we pretty much have the same views and respect other people's views. But if I wasn't, I'm not sure, I gets it depends. It would be really hard to marry a Jewish person (per say) and have him tell me we can't have Christmas...we would both have to be very open.
  4. Do you follow politics? Nope. The Hubs does and keeps me posted. if something interest me I do some research.
  5. How often do you talk about sex in your daily life and/or on your blog? I don't know, not a hell of a lot on the blog. In my personal life I do with everyone else because I'm VERY open but I think I know with who to talk to.
  6. Does it make you uncomfortable when someone asks you about your salary/income? Does it ever happen? Not uncomfortable I just wonder why they want to know, so I usually just ask them. I don't like to talk about money with anyone...however, interesting story: Once a coworker I was training ( I was a lead in the Co.) actually mentioned how much she was hired for. I was astonished since it was more than what I was making being a lead. I brought it to HR and they raised my pay accordingly to my possition, so I know this is beneficiary in some instances. I just hate when people use this to measure my worth.
  7. Do you tag friends and family in pictures that you post on FB, or do you seek permission first? Only the people that I know won't care, I usually don't mind it either but I have untag pictures of myself that I don't want to see posted every where.
  8. Can you be friends with people who have opposing views on ‘taboo’ topics? Yes, I am however is not always easy when certain people think they are very understanding until you don't agree with them. Can I just have my own opinion and respect yours? yes, I think so.
So there you have it. I hope you join Kenley -who by the way is having a giveaway.


Bella said...

Stopping in for FMM.

I can't believe they were paying someone you were training more than they were paying you as the lead! I'm glad you spoke up.

Stormy@Big Butt Theory said...

I can relate to bein burnt out.
Glad you spoke up,I am not sure if I would be as brave.

Kim said...

I agree with your religion answer...I'm VERY open, but do NOT tell me I can't have my Christmas tree! LOL

Anonymous said...

Interesting your trainee disclosed that ... while being trained! And I agree - my salary does not measure my worth!